Finding Time to Write, by Renee-Ann Giggie

Do you ever get in a “I don’t feel like doing anything” mood? A time when even the things you feel most passionate about no longer appeal to you? In the busyness of life, we all need “Me-Time” to rejuvenate our energy and refill our creative well. But will we fit that special time into our routine, enough to see a difference? How?

Being a writer is a demanding job, just getting the material down on paper, and then every writer has various additional responsibilities to factor into his or her daily schedule, as well. You may be juggling motherhood, a full-or part-time job, or caring for elderly parents. You may have church duties or your own health issues. Don't forget, writers also have to market their books, research new material, and support their fellow writers. Is your head spinning yet?

When my boys were growing up, writing wasn’t a priority for me. I made the decision not to write, whether it was conscious or unconscious, because I didn't have the Me-Time needed to make it happen. My creative well was full for my boys, but my fiction writing came from a different well inside of me, and that one needed to be replenished.

Do you ever take time for YOU?

Do you take time away from your family? Away from priorities and responsibilities, to pen those ideas that have been dancing in your head all day but you were too busy to write them down? Or just to nap. The ideas will develop while you sleep. At some point the three large mounds of laundry will have to wait another day. Don't let them stare you down. If you're serious about writing, you'll find that half-hour to rejuvenate your creative self, your soul, and keep writing.

Is there anyone who can help you find an hour a day to yourself?

Having two grown-up/out-of-the-nest kids doesn't mean I’m less busy. I may be done with the task of raising two very active little boys, but I still have meals to prepare, laundry to do, a house to clean, a vegetable garden to maintain, as well as a rotation-shift/full-time job that takes me out of the house five days a week. I thank God daily, though. He’d blessed me with a wonderful husband who not only helps with the chores, but supports my writing, 200%.

Daily Me-Time is a vital part of every writer’s life. Whether you steal 15 minutes, half an hour, or an hour to take a walk, catnap, brainstorm, put fingers to the keyboard--it will make you the writer you want to be. Go ahead and try fitting yourself into your day!

A young mother shared how she wrote during her two 15-minute work breaks, half hour commute on the bus (each way), and one hour after the kids went to bed to pen more words to her manuscript, keeping her entire weekends for responsibilities and family time. Do the math. Two-and-a-half hours a day, five days a week. It adds up, and with this kind of dedication, she’s set to complete her manuscript.

Do you fit Me-Time into your schedule? How? When?

Renee-Ann’s desire to write began very early but remained a hobby until just a few years ago when she wrote her first novel, Stella’s Plea, (Nov. 2012). She’s a member of several writing groups and is no stranger to Christian writers’ conferences, where she thrives on learning, and then looks forward to the next conference. She and her husband live in New Brunswick, Canada. Her latest release is titled Emma's Prayer.

Blurb from Emma's Prayer:

A teen pregnancy. A couple desperate for a family. A baby awaiting adoption.

When the opportunity presents itself, will Emma Leigh Roberts take back what’s rightfully hers, or will she come to terms with the consequences of her decision?

When Cynthia Manning, a small town speech therapist, suffers another miscarriage, she and her husband Logan turn to adoption. They’re delighted when a baby boy is placed in their home. Is heartbreak inevitable?

Keeping our own writing counsel

Last year, I began meeting with a younger author at her request, in order to help bring her dream of writing her first work of non-fiction to reality. Her eagerness to learn was obvious from the outset. Whenever I referred to a particular book about writing, she would note its name and want to borrow or buy it. Whenever I mentioned an online writers’ group she might like to join or a writer’s blog she might like to check out, that is what she did. And when I told her about a Christian writers’ conference here in Australia, she was among the first to book in.

My young friend is a delight. I know she respects me and listens to my suggestions. But, much more importantly, she has a deep love for the Lord and is passionate about wanting her own experiences in life to count for the Kingdom. Believing God wants her to write her book, she has worked hard at mapping it all out systematically in a way I have never done with any of my own and has now completed some of her early chapters. I am in awe of her enthusiastic and thorough approach to it all.

But there is another way in which our writing approaches differ. I have discovered my friend is quite happy to show these early chapters to her writing group and to others who are prepared to critique her work, in order to receive as much feedback as possible. As we talked about this, she explained she has always been a collaborative worker, willing to use the skills and gifts of others to get things done. So she is happy to take on board any comments and criticisms, even at this early stage. I, on the other hand, cringed when I heard what she was doing. I felt it could be a little confusing for her and perhaps even hamper her from developing her own writing style.

But then I began to question myself. I had never shown my work to others in those early stages at least. Was it merely my pride and my inability to receive criticism that had caused me to keep my work to myself until it was almost complete? Imagine my recent relief then, when, on reading Dorothea Brande’s book, Becoming A Writer, written way back in 1934, I came across the following in a section entitled ‘Keep your own counsel’:

When you have completed a fair first draft you can, if you like, offer it for criticism and advice; but to talk too early is a grave mistake.  (p 52, 1981 Tarcher/Penguin edition)

The author reasoned that, if we share our work with others while it is still taking shape, we have already received their responses and will be less motivated to complete all the developing and polishing our manuscript needs. Perhaps this then accounted, in part at least, for my reticence in sharing my own work too early and the shudder that ran through me when my friend told me how freely she was showing those early chapters to others.

How about you? Have you found it is good to show your manuscript to critique partners early on so you can fix any key problems? Or do you, like me, prefer to ‘keep your own counsel’ until that first draft is complete?

Jo-Anne Berthelsen lives in Sydney, Australia. She holds degrees in Arts and Theology and has worked as a high school teacher, editor and secretary, as well as in local church ministry. Jo-Anne is passionate about touching hearts and lives through both the written and spoken word. She is the author of six published novels and one non-fiction work, Soul Friend: the story of a shared spiritual journey. Jo-Anne is married to a retired minister and has three grown-up children and four grandchildren. For more information, please visit www.jo-anneberthelsen.com.