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Five years ago I was about to attend my first
ACFW Conference. Like this year’s event it too was in Dallas (a different
venue) but was a nice direct flight home to Sydney. I went as a contracted
author, my first novel, Angelguard, due to be released six months later in
early 2013.
On the first morning (the event started the prior
afternoon) a young lady shared a devotional. She was humble, funny,
self-deprecating and clearly had a love for Jesus. She had a signed contract
for a multi-book series but, like me, wouldn’t release her first book until the
following year.
Last week I noticed a photo in this lady’s FB
feed of “her pile”. The stories (novels, novellas and short stories) she’d
published (both tradional and self). I was in awe. And proud of all that she
had accomplished. Melissa
has become a writing friend. I’ve read a couple of her stories and love them.
Melissa writes rom-com style novels that feature characters who have a faith in
Jesus.
Another Aussie friend wrote a post only this week
where he mentioned he’d attended ACFW last year for the first time and he’s now
in a position of having recently become agented and finaled in a competition at
the Oregon Christian Writers Conference.
Comparisonitis
We read about this all the time and it can be
challenging to not do it. Remember we have an enemy who will try to mess with
our minds at every opportunity. Envy is one of those core “deadly sins” that he
tempts us with.
“Your enemy the devil is on the prowl like a
roaring lion, looking for someone to devour.” (1 Peter 5:8)
I did do the comparison because it was pretty
simple to do … one published, one waiting to be (well I’m believing that to be
the case!) and 40% of another. Hey, it pales in comparison. Could I have
written more? Yes, I could of and should of. But I chose not to beat myself up
or get down on myself, rather to regard it as the past and be stirred to
produce more in the future.
Besides being in awe, Melissa’s post inspired me.
Look at what we can achieve. Look what is possible. Even when you work two jobs
which Melissa does. We all know authors who are similarly prolific. Our own
Lisa Harris releases a couple of stories each year while being a missionary in
Mozambique with her husband. Kara Isaac has had an extremely busy couple of
years releasing three novels and giving birth to a bub! Carolyn Miller, another
Aussie author, hadn’t released anything eight months ago but in October the
third in her Regency Brides series is released. Sure, Carolyn didn’t write
three full-length novels overnight, but wow.
By 2022
Only God knows what we’ll be doing in five years
time. I hope I’ll be getting ready to attend another ACFW Conference along with
many other members of the ICFW family. And I hope to have more books, both
fiction and non-fiction, published.
But more isn’t necessarily the answer. Something
we always need to be conscious of. Too often we will place value on ourselves
through our “more”, through our achievements. It’s important to remember that
we are children of God and already are significant because of that. He created
us and therefore we are significant.
Amongst the madness of writing, publishing,
working and having a life I asked Melissa for a few thoughts on what worked so
she maintained her sanity:
- Never put writing above the people you love. You will never, ever regret spending time with the people God has put in your path. They're there for a reason ... and they will always be more important than fictional people! That said... :)
- Know yourself! Know what works for you and what doesn't. What doesn't work for me is strict word count goals and deadlines (whereas I know others who thrive on deadlines!). What does work for me is finding a long weekend here or there when I can hide away from the world and just write to my heart's content. When you've discovered what works for you, you can lean into that and get so much more done than if you try to do what you see everyone else doing. I've been soooo much more productive since I quit trying to write on evenings after long days of work and instead just focused on finding three- or four-day stretches here and there where I can bang out a bunch of words at once.
- Don't be afraid to take breaks! When it comes to reaching for a dream, it's easy to feel like we need to do and do and do and push and push and push. But for me, some of my best creativity and best productivity has happened after allowing myself to step away ... whether for one night or one weekend or even one month. Those are the times in which God refreshes my spirit and I rediscover why I'm doing what I'm doing.
I love that … such great wisdom. We’re all different
and understanding what works for each of us is important.
Go forth dear writing friends. Keep leaning into Jesus
and keep believing. And keep writing. Remember writers write. (I always need to
remind myself of that)
Ian Acheson is
an author and strategy consultant based in Sydney. Ian's first novel of
speculative fiction, Angelguard, is available in the US, UK, Canada and Australia. Angelguard was recognised with the
2014 Selah Award for Speculative Fiction.You can find more about Angelguard at Ian's website, on his author Facebook page and Twitter
I love this post so much Ian. It resonates with me on every level. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteI'm so pleased, Dianne. When I write a post I always ask the Lord that it may mean something to just the one reader.
DeleteBless ...
Great wisdom indeed. I like the idea of putting in 3 or 4 good writing days here and there vs. trying to do multiple things at once. I might use that soon as I begin teaching my son at home. Thanks, Ian! And here's to 2022 :)
ReplyDeleteThanks, Patricia. I have a few other friends who do the same. They leave home and go somewhere to write solidly for a few days. I understand one place Melissa goes to is her parents place. She gets the quiet but also a chance to catch up with her folks.
DeleteThanks, Ian. I've read a couple of posts this week saying it's okay to have a time away from writing. It's a refreshing and honest change from the prevalent 'write every day' mantra.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, it's definitely encouraging to see what we can achieve in five years. Roll on 2022! (But not too fast).
Iola, I think like most pursuits/activities/vocations taking a break can provide refreshment and help ideas germinate. And on returning provide a boost in stimulation.
DeleteAnother great post, Ian. I recall attending conferences without any books on the (published) horizon - it's a challenge but so necessary to continue to find our purpose and identity in God.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Carolyn. I trust you don't mind me mentioning your achievement this year.
DeleteHa ha! (Don't mind at all)
ReplyDeleteThis is a really great post. Thank you for sharing, Ian. Because it really doesn't matter who you are or what you've done, there is always someone you can compare yourself to and you fall short. I also love the reminder never to put writing above people you love. I've tried my whole writing career to do this, and while I won't say I always get it right, it is so true. I don't want to look back with regrets because I was too busy!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Lisa. You're one of my inspirations. But more significantly I'm glad I can call you friend.
DeleteTrust this past week has been good & enjoy catching up with your editor.
You're such an encourager, Ian, and I appreciate that so much!!
ReplyDeleteSuch a great post, Ian! I was recently comparing myself to some colleagues and feeling down that I can't write books as fast as they can and you've just reminded me that having three books release in fifteen months isn't a bad effort at all :) I look forward to hopefully seeing you at ACFW in 2022!!
ReplyDeleteYou're one of my heroes, Kara. Amazing how you manage it all and still have a life and be a mum to your growing tribe.
DeleteAnd you write great stories. May the Lord continue to inspire you with new stories where you get to weave in His great love for His people.