Roses and Valentine's Day

Posted by Ruth Ann Dell

Hearts, love poems, pretty cards trimmed in shades of red, cuddly teddy bears, chocolates and chubby cherubs with bows and arrows abound today—Valentine's Day. And roses everywhere.  Exquisite red roses saying "I love you".

On Saturday my friend, Yvonne, shared her creativity and showed a group of church friends how to make felt roses.

Yvonne with some of her felt roses

What a morning of fun, love and fellowship we had as we pinned, laughed, snipped, chatted, sewed, laughed, made mistakes, chatted, drank tea, laughed some more, arranged petals, wielded the glue gun, chatted some more... well I'm sure you get the idea.

Ready to start

Cutting out petals

The colours of roses convey different messages. Not only do red roses mean love, but they also stand for passion, beauty, courage and respect. A yellow rose with red-tipped petals will tip you off that the giver values your friendship and is falling in love with you, while lavender hues indicate love at first sight and enchantment. White roses tell of  purity and innocence. Want to express admiration, sympathy, grace, joy or sweetness? Buy light pink roses for a gift. Red and white roses given together signify unity. Dark pink shows appreciation and gratitude.

A beautiful bouquet of roses showing appreciation

Our instruction sheets included advice from a rose:

• Bloom
• Share your beauty
• Be a good bud
• Grow gracefully
• Spread sweetness

Sage advice indeed, well worth following every day of the year.

And today I wish I could shower God with a multitude of red roses to say "I love You". Not only has He given us the gift of roses in this world to enjoy, He has also given us the gift of His great love, shown in the ultimate gift of Jesus, His Son, Who died to give us forgiveness for our sins and the gift of eternal life. What an amazing gift to thank Him for this Valentine's Day.

Drought and Rain

    This is a picture of a prize rose in my garden, five days before the Fall Fair.  A few hours after I took the photo, the rains started -- hard, pounding rain.  Water droplets hit the pavement and bounced four to six inches in the air, the wind blew, toppling trees and knocking out power to thousands.  Rain beat the petals off my roses.  Wind snapped the stems.
    Occasionally there'd be a let up, the sun would peek through and I'd think "I'll still have a rose or two for the Fair."  Then the rains came again.  By Fair day, I had only a few bedraggled blooms to enter in the competition.
    We have had the hottest, driest summer on record in my part of the world.  Creeks have dried up, warm waters in the rivers threaten the fish, fires have consumed hundreds of thousands of hectares of forest, reservoirs have dropped to dangerous levels.  I could not complain about the rain.  It was desperately needed.  

   The summer has been a dry spell for me on the writing front as well.  The flow of words has dwindled to a trickle, imagination is sere and dry, motivation is stagnant and confidence has evaporated.

   On Fair day, I entered the hall without much hope, but, in view of the weather, the judges were lenient.  They forgave the odd torn petal or rain spot.  

My rose bushes have recovered and I now have dozens of blooms to choose from -- just too late for the Fair!

    While a tiny part of me wishes the rain could have held off for just a few more days, my better instincts give thanks for the rain and rejoice that rivers are flowing freely again, that the fires are finally under control and that, like the Psalmist, we give thanks to God for watering the land.

  As I gather the wealth of blooms from my rose bushes, I marvel at the wonderful world God gave us.  Devastation turned to beauty in a few short days.  I take hope.  I pray God will restore the gift of words to me as surely as he restored the water to the earth.  Nevertheless, Lord,  "Thy will be done." 

iAliceValdal lives in Beautiful British Columbia Canada  Visit her at www.alicevaldal.com or at  facebook.com/#!/alice.valdal.5 

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Fall Fair

One of the rites of autumn in our house is the Fall Fair. As the days grow shorter, the nights colder and the corn swells on the stalks, I itch for the smell of hot dogs and doughnuts. My ears yearn for the soft lowing of cows and the thud of horses' hoofs. I want sawdust underfoot and a hot sun on my back. It's Fall and time for the fair.

When I was a child I raided my mother's flower garden and vegetable patch to create displays for the school section of the Fair. I wheedled my father into taking me for long walks in the woods so I could collect samples -- twenty different types of leaf for the deciduous display, ten sprigs of needles and cones for coniferous.

Later, I joined 4-H and a calf, freshly washed, combed, polished and trained to a halter became the highlight of the day. Keeping my own outfit sparkling white while dealing with an often stubborn, four-legged "pet" weighing 200 pounds was an education in itself. I must have succeeded to some degree, for the rose bowl I used for flowers in church this Sunday bears an inscription of "Champion 4-H Dairy Showman."
For those of you who don't know, 4-H is a club usually for farm kids, although not necessarily. In Canada it is supported by the Dept. of Agriculture. The 4 H's are Head, Heart, Hands, Health and there's a pledge. "I pledge my head to clearer thinking, my heart to greater loyalty, my hands to larger service and my health to better living for my club, my community and my country." Not a bad motto for life.

Years passed and I moved away from the farm, but the sense of seed time and harvest is in my genes so when I found a Fall Fair close to where I live now, I was an avid visitor, taking great pride in explaining to my non-rural husband the finer points of Holstein conformation and the value of legumes in hay. When my godsons were born, their parents joined us in the annual rite of the Fall Fair. Again, I had the privilege and joy of sharing my heritage with a new generation. Again, I was successful, with surprising results. My friend decided we needed to participate at the ground level. She's a wonderful knitter so began entering articles in the needle arts section. Within a very short time she'd won the prize for most points in a section. Imagine! My city friend was beating me at a country pastime.

So, I got the catalogue and marked the sections where I could exhibit. I no longer have a calf or a pony, but I have a garden and I can knit. I've entered roses and sweaters and preserves and jellies and pickles. The days before the fair are spent cosseting my rosebushes, trying to get the flowers to the perfect stage for display, not too closed, not too open. I check all my home canning, seeking the jar with the clearest jelly or the most golden marmalade. Knitted articles are steamed and shaped and primped. All must be transported to the Fair grounds the day before, where I fuss and fidget, trying to get the exhibit just perfect.

Then comes opening day and I'm among the first through the gate. I can't wait to see if I or my friend have won a prize. (Although, in my friend's case it's not "if" but "how many"!) Then I wander happily among the goats and bunnies and cows and horses, donkeys, llamas and swine. Children ride the midway, their squeals mingling with the sound of bagpipes as the classes of highland dancers entertain. I gaze in awe at a five pound tomato or squint to see if that eight inch dahlia is really unsupported. I admire the beautiful quilts, marvel at petit point pictures, and wish I could create the fine lace of a tatter. I've won a few ribbons and earned some cash. But mostly, because of my surprising friend, I've re-connected with my roots.

In my part of the world churches are closing because of declining membership. Generations have wandered away from their heritage, been seduced by the mad pleasures of the merry-go-round and forgotten their roots. They wander through life without guideposts. They feed on candy while ignoring true bread. I pray there will be a friend to lead them home. I pray I might be that friend.

What about you? Do you go to the Fair? Do you have a friend who has opened doors for you? Please share.