Showing posts with label incense. Show all posts
Showing posts with label incense. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

A Pleasing Aroma?


I adore light cotton Indian clothes. They are so pretty, cool and comfortable to wear.  Yet I rarely go into a shop that sells them.  Why? Because the majority of the shops selling them insist on filling the premises with incense and I can’t stand the overpowering smell of it. The after effects are not worth it. It makes me feel nauseous for ages afterwards. With some shops , and I am thinking of one in particular , I cannot even walk past it or go into any of the shops near it because of the pervasive smell.  I simply avoid that whole part of the shopping centre. My husband laughs. He barely registers the smell at all and doesn’t understand my problem. He obviously doesn’t have the same sensitivity to smell that I do. So if ever I get an Indian cotton skirt it is, because my darling husband has gone and bought it for me as he sometimes does for birthday or Christmas gifts. Then it gets hung in the breeze until the smell has disappeared from it.

The smell of flowers is another one that can be a problem. I love flowers, especilly if they are blue.
 
But there are two I cannot cope with. Gardenia and lavender both have a similar effect on me. I know many people claim lavender is calming and useful for relaxation. Some people sprinkle it on their pillows to induce sleep. Not in my household.  All lavender does is give me a violent headache. And as for eating lavender ice-cream and biscuits as I have read about in books, Never in a million year is that going to happen!

The whole sensitivity to smell issue started me thinking about how people react differently to things and how some smells leave a distinctly unpleasant aftertaste in the mouth.  Perhaps it’s no different with writing. What impression or aftertaste is left with readers after reading one of our blog posts or one of our books?

 Recently I read a novel which, while skilfully written, left me with a peculiar aftertaste. All I could think of was I was glad I had not lived with such a family of disagreeable and selfish people and why had I invested time in reading about such horrible people. That has actually been my reaction to a few novels lately, which is sad.

How much better it is to leave people feeling hopeful or feeling thankful for what they have. That doesn’t mean everyone in the story has to be so nice they come across as not real. That can be just as much a problem, as it is too sugary sweet.  It’s okay for characters to display negative characteristics. They need them so they are real and complex rather than one dimensional. It’s okay for them to have problems they need to work through. In fact without them and without displaying some negative characteristics at times there will probably not be much of a story. But the ending needs to leave the reader satisfied and feeling hopeful that the character has learned something. If a character doesn’t change at all during the course of a novel, then what is the point? That doesn’t mean it has to have a happy ending where every problem is solved.  Sometimes that can be unrealistic. Sometimes its better to leave some issues unresolved for the character to work on. But it does mean there should be a glimmer of hope and satisfaction.

Have you ever read a book and it’s not grabbing you but you keep reading, thinking it must get better. Then you get to the end and feel like throwing it against the wall. ‘What was the point?’ you mutter.

These days I rarely bother to keep reading unless a book involves me. All the pretty writing and beautifully constructed sentences in the world are not enough to keep me reading if I cannot engage with the characters. What we want as writers is for people to become so involved they don’t want to put the book down. They want to know about those characters and what happens to them even after the story is finished. A book that can keep people thinking about the characters after they have closed the last page is a treasure indeed.  Thankfully, I’ve read a few books like that. What a joy it is!  Isn’t that the type of effect we would like to have with our writing? I know it is with mine which is why I keep tinkering with the opening chapter and working so hard to get it right on my next novel, Sandstone Madonna. You can read a little about that work in progress on my blog. The same applies to the nonfiction project I’m working on. I need to get it right.

Don’t we want to leave a pleasing aroma behind us? In our lives and in our writing are we spreading ‘the fragrance of the knowledge’ of Jesus.  Whether we write fiction or nonfiction, poetry or prose I would hope we are ‘an aroma of Christ.’ That doesn’t mean that everyone in our books has to become a Christian but we should be able to show people who clearly live out their faith and how that affects the choices they make in life, as well as those who do not and the consequences of their choices.

Some of the books that have left a positive lasting impression on me recently for different reasons are Soul Friend, Tangled Secrets, The Greenfield Legacy, The Last Runaway, Unsaid, Love Anthony, Friendship Bread, One Breath Away, and Bethlehem’s Baby Warrior.  Some are aimed at the Christian market others are secular books but they all left a beautiful aroma and something to think about behind them. I’d love to hear what books have had that effect on you recently.
 
Streets on a Map, was published by Ark House Press. Prior to that Dale has had seven children’s books and Kaleidoscope a collection of poetry published.
Along with her husband, Dale was for a time houseparent for a family of twelve boys. She has also been a manuscript assessor and book reviewer and run creative writing classes. She has also written bible studies and Sunday school lessons. For several years she wrote about Christian living, marriage and home related topics for www.families.com. She has a BA in Literary and Australian studies. More information about Dale can be found at www.daleharcombe.com or on her Write and Read with Dale blog http://www.livejournal.com/users/orangedale/



 

Thursday, September 16, 2010

The Writer's Prayer

by Marion Ueckermann

Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart.
- Proverbs 27 v 9


Smell . . . our sense most linked to memory. Just a whiff of a certain fragrance has the ability to transport one through time and space, to faraway places.

Our prayers are like incense, perfume, to God the Father. When He smells the aroma of our praise and petitions, He remembers us . . . our wants, our desires, our needs.

Isaac prayed for his infertile wife, and she became pregnant. Hannah prayed for a child, and God answered her prayer. It is prayer that gets us through the barren times of life. And writers are often faced with such times when words are few, ideas even fewer.

Philip Sidney, a 16th Century English poet, wrote of these moments:

“Biting my truant pen, beating myself for spite:
“Fool!” said my Muse to me; “look in thy heart and write.”

The heart, the place where our Creator dwells, is the crucible wherein our prayers are formed; a melting pot producing the incense that weaves its way to the Father’s heart.

With hands clasped together, the barrenness of writer’s block can be overcome through prayer. Allow yourself to become pregnant with ideas that, in the fullness of time, will give birth to great Christian fiction.

The Writer's Prayer
by Sandy Tritt

Photo by Geri-Jean Blanchard (Canada)
– used with permission


 Open my mind, Lord.
Grant me the talent to write with clarity and style,
so my words go down rich and smooth, like fine wine,
and leave my reader thirsty for more.

Open my heart, Lord.
Grant me the sensitivity to understand my characters
—their hopes, their wants, their dreams—
and help me to confer that empathy to my reader.

Open my soul, Lord,
so I may be a channel to wisdom and creativity
from beyond my Self.
Stoke my imagination with vivid imagery and vibrant perception.

But most of all, Lord,
help me to know the Truth,
so my fiction is more honest than actuality
and reaches the depths of my reader's soul.

Wrap these gifts with opportunity,
perseverance,
and the strength to resist those who insist it can't be done.

Amen.

© 1999 Sandy Tritt. All rights reserved. http://www.inspirationforwriters.com/



Sandy Tritt is the founder and CEO of Inspiration for Writers, Inc., one of the oldest and most respected editing and writing firms still in operation today. She is currently writing a seven-book family saga series. Sandy has given fiction workshops at Appalachian Writers Conference (Tennessee), Alabama Writers Conclave, West Virginia Writers Conference, Marietta College (Ohio), and others. For writing tips and techniques, essays on the writing life, editing and writing services, and much more, visit http://www.inspirationforwriters.com/.

If you'd like a glossy or magnetic copy of the Writer's Prayer for yourself, or multiple copies for your writer's workshop or conference, please email Sandy (IFWeditors@gmail.com). There's no charge as long as the shipping address is within the US.


MARION UECKERMANN’s writing passion was sparked in 2001 when she moved to Ireland with her husband and two sons. Since then Marion has been honing her skills and has published some devotional articles in Winners at Work as well as inspirational poetry online and in a poetry journal. She has written her first Christian Women’s novel (unpublished) and is currently completing the sequel. Marion now lives in Pretoria East, South Africa with her husband, sons and a crazy black ‘Scottie’. A member and moderator of the South African Christian Writers Group, Marion can be contacted via email on marionu(at)telkomsa(dot)net.