The fight happened at lunchtime on
the school grounds two weeks before graduation.
Four boys from my senior class, to celebrate the end of their secondary
schooling, threw commonsense aside and attacked my brother Mark, a popular
eleventh grader. A passing teacher broke
up the fight.
My brother was left with a black
eye. My classmates were sent to the
principal's office.
My father, as school board
president, was involved in deciding a suitable punishment. Being a just man, he met with the four boys
to hear their side. They made the
mistake in thinking that, because he gave them a hearing, he would believe
their lies and they would escape punishment.
Many people make a similar mistake
about God. They think that, because God
is love, they can reject Jesus their whole lives, behave as they choose and
still be welcomed into heaven.
As Christians, we know they're
wrong. God is more than just love. If he were love only, that love would have
kept him from sending his one and only son to be slaughtered on the cross. He would have found a less costly way to
provide us with an entrance into heaven.
But he didn't because love is not
the primary issue. Holiness is.
Holiness – being set apart for God,
separated from ordinary, everyday usage – is clearly taught in the Old
Testament commandments God gave the Israelites. (Lev. 20:22-26) We see this not just with regard to their
worship but in their day-to-day living.
In all aspects of their lives, the Israelites were to be a people set
apart for God. (Lev. 19:1-2)
God is just as committed to holiness
in the New Testament and in having a people set apart for himself. (1 Peter
2:9) Nothing proves that uncompromising
commitment to holiness better than Christ's death on the cross. In 1 Peter 1:15-16, when God says, “Be holy
for I am holy,” he means it.
God will not welcome us into his
holy heaven unless we also are made holy by Christ's blood and continue to
strive to be holy through holy living. A
good portion of the New Testament is devoted to telling what this means. Our relationships are to be holy. Our thoughts, words and deeds are to be
holy. We're to use our time, money and
abilities in holy ways.
Not only will holy living prepare us
for heaven, but our example can give our non-Christian friends a better grasp
of God's primary issue.
The primary issue with my father was
deciding a just punishment. Because he
was fair, he listened to my classmates.
They wasted their opportunity.
Instead of admitting their fault and asking for leniency, they
lied.
The primary issue with God is
maintaining holiness. Because he loves
us, he let his son die to provide us the opportunity to become holy. We must not waste our opportunity through
unholy living. We must be holy examples
for our non-Christian friends so, perhaps, they won't waste theirs.
Thanks for this thought-provoking message, Karen. The one thing that's missing is, I was longing to know what your father decided!
ReplyDeleteMy father decided that the four boys were guilty but, given that they shortly would be graduating, he let it go. Since it happened in a small town, their misdeeds became public which hurt their reputations even in the nearby town.
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