By Lisa Harris
I’ve spent a lot of my life waiting for the next big thing. When I was in high school I couldn’t wait for college. Then I was single and couldn’t wait to get married. Once I got married, even that wasn’t enough. I longed for children despite years of infertility.
I’ve spent a lot of my life waiting for the next big thing. When I was in high school I couldn’t wait for college. Then I was single and couldn’t wait to get married. Once I got married, even that wasn’t enough. I longed for children despite years of infertility.
I think we all experience that wave of discontentment, maybe
more often than we’d like. As a writer it’s wanting to win an award or making
that best seller list, and then everything will be perfect.
Right?
Right?
If only.
If only ________________ then __________________.
You fill in the blanks.
It’s simply so easy to forge on toward the next best thing,
believing that will be the thing to make us content.
And in the process we often miss the blessings right in
front of us.
When I was first published by a major house, I was convinced
my life was going to change dramatically. Can I let you in on a little secret?
It didn’t. Except for the fact that I now had more work and higher
expectations. A bad thing? Not at all. It was wonderful. But I learned that
even achieving that dream didn’t automatically come with all my problems
vanishing.
Don’t get me wrong, we shouldn’t stop growing or dreaming or
having goals, whatever they might be, but what about enjoying the journey? I
want to make sure I stop and find joy in the place where I’m at right now. Whither
I’m completely where I want to be or not.
Paul says in Philippians 4 that he learned to be content. Yep,
he said learned. Which sounds to me like it didn’t come naturally. He said he
learned the secret of being content in any and every situation. Well fed or
hungry. Rich or poor. In need or having plenty.
We know that God doesn’t always change the situations we’re
in. And sometimes that’s hard, especially in a world that seems to be in so
much turmoil right now. Sometimes He uses tough situations to strengthen us,
which in turn actually helps us to persevere.
So no matter what is happening in your life right now,
whether great or difficult, take a moment today to stop and see the beauty around
you. To see God’s handprint. Enjoy the moment as we strive to find contentment
through Him no matter what is happening around us.
Be blessed!
Lisa Harris
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Be blessed!
Lisa Harris
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LISA HARRIS is a Christy Award finalist for Blood Ransom and
Vendetta, Christy Award winner for Dangerous Passage, and the winner of
the Best Inspirational Suspense Novel for Blood Covenant and Vendetta from Romantic Times. She has over thirty novels and novella collections
in print. She and her family have spent over twelve years working as
missionaries in Africa. When she's not working she loves hanging out with her
family, cooking different ethnic dishes, photography, and heading into the
African bush on safari. For more information about her books and life in Africa
visit her website at www.lisaharriswrites.com
Lovely word, Lisa. I've just finished studying Philippians and it's amazing how Paul discovered contentment. Being in God's presence is more than enough. I want that.
ReplyDelete'Missing' is due to arrive next week so hope to start it soon. Can't wait.
Bless,
It's definitely something I'm working on in my life right now, because yes, His presence is enough! Hope you enjoy missing!!
DeleteI've learned that if we don't learn to stop, to be still, to find contentment in what we already have, we'll miss what we have.
ReplyDeleteIt's an important lesson, Lisa. Thanks for the reminder.
Exactly, Iola. Well said!
DeleteGreat post, Lisa! I was having this conversation with my four year-old today (in the context of wanting some toy that his friend has when our house overfloweth with toys!) and I was thinking about how much that applies to my writing. If I can't find contentment with where I am right now, if I'm always thinking it will come with more sales, or finaling for an award, or another book contract, then I'm missing out on so much joy in the journey!
ReplyDeleteExactly. I know I've missed so much waiting for something instead of realizing what I have right in front of me.
DeleteLisa, thanks for your encouraging and inspiring post. I agree, we need to learn how to be content because our natural inclination is to want more, and more, and more, and never reach a place of contentment. Paul knew what he was talking about in Philippians :)
ReplyDeleteWe definitely do tend to want more. I'm sure Paul and God, of course, knew that and knew we needed to hear his words!
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