Monday, June 6, 2016

Beware of Burning Yourself Out by Christine Lindsay

It is hilarious that I am writing this post late---it should have been published 8 hours ago---due to the fact that I am once again dangerously close to burn out. 

Life happens. 


The bane of the writer's career though, is that when life happens we often feel it is an interruption to our writing time.  Oh boy is that backwards, and it took me a long time to learn that. 


Nothing is as frazzled as a writer who is itching to get back to his/her manuscript or much needed marketing tasks and a friend is unexpectedly hanging on the doorbell. Think Bilbo Baggins and those infernal cousins of his when he wanted only to finish his tale, There and Back Again


But here are a few home truths:



  • If you say no to your family and social invitations too often, you lose the freshness of real life, and the lack of that will show in your writing.
  • Worse still, you will increase the depth of your burn out for a longer period of time.
We all know what we should do for mental and physical health while writing. Today I want to encourage you that when "LIFE" happens, and you have no other option but to put your writing aside for a season, to not be disheartened.

My writing career has developed in a uneven pattern of starts and stops. The times I've had to stop have been when one of my three adult children have got married, or I started a new day job, or selling my house, or a loved one became ill. 


When these things happen to you, do not try and write during these seasons. Set your writing aside and trust the Lord to bring it all together at the right time. 


These past 6 months have been a whirlwind for me. Starting in January I had edits to do for my non-fiction book Finding Sarah Finding Me, while at the same time arranging marketing and writing reams of blogs to promote the May release of Sofi's Bridge. Just as Sofi's Bridge was published my husband and I decided to renovate our home and put it up for sale. At the same time there were preparations to make for my youngest son's wedding in June, and I also held down my part-time job and started the process to take on a second temporary part time job. There was nothing I could do, but get my marketing tasks to a certain point and then leave it. And there was certainly no time to write another book or even attempt to. 


When life happens:

  • Admit you can only do so much.
  • Do what you can, and leave the rest to the Lord.
  • Trust God that your writing career is in His hands.
I found over the years that He is so faithful. While I didn't have time this past month to answer every blog comment, or be on social media as much as my writing peers do when they have a new release, I've been blessed to see the Lord multiply my small efforts in promotion of my latest release. Sofi's Bridge for example won the April Clash of the Titles.

My point is, don't just let life happen and growl that it is hampering your writing career, but instead rest in the Lord and you just might be amazed at how the He takes your efforts during your weary times and blesses you.
  • EMBRACE your life, the good and the bad.
  • REST physically and mentally.
  • TRUST God for the outcome.
Here are some portions from Ecclesiastes 2 to ponder.

My heart took delight in all my labor, and this was the reward for all my toil.


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Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done  and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun....


What do people get for all the toil and anxious striving with which they labor under the sun? All their days their work is grief and pain; even at night their minds do not rest. This too is meaningless.


A person can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in their own toil. This too, I see, is from the hand of God, for without him, who can eat or find enjoyment? To the person who pleases him, God gives wisdom, knowledge and happiness, but to the sinner he gives the task of gathering and storing up wealth to hand it over to the one who pleases God. This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind.

Christine Lindsay is the author of multi-award-winning Christian fiction. Tales of her Irish ancestors who served in the British Cavalry in Colonial India inspired her multi-award-winning series Twilight of the British Raj, Book 1 Shadowed in Silk, Book 2 Captured by Moonlight, and explosive finale Veiled at Midnight. Christine’s Irish wit and her use of setting as a character is evident in her contemporary romance Londonderry Dreaming and her newest release Sofi’s Bridge 

Aside from being a busy writer and speaker, Christine and her husband live on the west coast of Canada. Coming August 2016 is the release of Christine’s non-fiction book Finding Sarah—Finding Me: A Birthmother’s Story. Please drop by Christine’s website www.ChristineLindsay.org or follow her on Amazon onTwitter. Subscribe to her quarterly newsletter, and be her friend on Pinterest , Facebook, and Goodreads.

16 comments:

  1. Thanks so much for such down-to-earth advice, Christine. I have also come to that conclusion...life matters more than my love of writing. And it truly removes the stress. Do you mind if I quote part of this in an upcoming blog in Australia?
    God bless you.

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    1. No, I certainly do not mind, Rita. Go head and use it. Hugs.

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  2. Great post, Christine, and always timely. Thank you!

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    1. So glad the post was encouraging Iola. Hugs and blessings.

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  3. Excellent advice, Christine. "Life happens." So true!

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    1. As you also know so well Donna. Hugs to you dear friend.

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  4. Oh yes Christine. You've totally nailed it. With three anaesthetics, and two brand new Web designs as a result of hackers, all in one year, I spent so much time with my writing on hold,I seriously wondered if the Lord was saying it was time to stop writing! Praise the Lord. I seem to be up and running again,but thank you for this reminder that sometimes we need to let life happen and not fret!

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  5. Oh yes Christine. You've totally nailed it. With three anaesthetics, and two brand new Web designs as a result of hackers, all in one year, I spent so much time with my writing on hold,I seriously wondered if the Lord was saying it was time to stop writing! Praise the Lord. I seem to be up and running again,but thank you for this reminder that sometimes we need to let life happen and not fret!

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    1. I've seen that in my life too. Just when I think it's time to give it all up, the Lord swoops in and changes the scenario. Interesting how He allows those seasons in our life when we simply cannot write and then brings it back again. All about trusting God for the seasons in our life.

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  6. Preach it, Sister! This is me, exactly! I can't remember the last time I stopped to breathe. And that's why my last post was so terrible! Thank you for the reminder!xo

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    1. Oh I hear ya, Jenn. I'm there so often too. Yes, the Lord wants us to write, but He also wants us to live the abundant life in HIm, and that means breathing in His sweetness. Hugs to you dear Sister! :o)

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  7. A wonderful reminder, Christine. Thank you!

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  8. Christine, thanks for sharing your words of wisdom. When "life happens" it can be tempting to just suck it up and push through with our writing, especially when we have deadlines. The last time I did that I nearly died (an emergency appendectomy a few years ago) and that was a massive wake up call for me. In April I started a new job and I've struggled to find the head space to write. I also trust that the Lord will open up the windows of time that I need to finish my current project and meet my deadlines.

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  9. I want to encourage you Narelle to keep on trusting the Lord with your writing even as you start this new job. I've been in the same place myself and have had to release my writing to God for seasons. BUT, I have found Him so faithful. He will help you through this new curve in the journey, and I know He will carve out those writing windows in His perfect timing. Rest in Him.

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