Friday, April 11, 2014

DEVOTION: Saying Hello! ~ by Shirley Corder


The angel added [to Hagar], "I will so increase your descendants that they will be too numerous to count." The angel of the LORD also said to her: "You are now with child and you will have a son. You shall name him Ishmael, for the LORD has heard of your misery. He will be a wild donkey of a man; his hand will be against everyone and everyone's hand against him, and he will live in hostility toward all his brothers." She gave this name to the LORD who spoke to her: "You are the God who sees me." Genesis 16:10-13a NIV

A common greeting used by the Zulu people in South Africa comes in two parts. The one person says, “Sikhona!” and the response is “Sawubona!” Sikhona literally means “I am here to be seen,” and Sawubona says, “I see you.”

What a powerful greeting! How often do we give a casual and meaningless “Hi!” or ask “How are you?” The traditional response for that question is, “Fine thanks and you?” I have to confess there have been many times that I have hoped that is all the person will say. I really don't want to be there for the next ten minutes while he or she tells me exactly how they are! 

Yet what a difference we could make to someone's day if we took a lesson from the Zulu folk. If we were to look each other in the eye and admit, “I am here to be seen!” and hear the other person assure us, “I see you.”

Hagar was Sarah's servant. Because Sarah was infertile, she ordered Hagar to sleep with her husband Abraham and give him a son. (No pressure!) The son would then be Abraham's heir. 

No sooner was she pregnant, when Sarah started to ill-treat the girl, and eventually Hagar could take no more. She ran away into the desert - an extremely dangerous place for a pregnant young woman.  

Suddenly, an angel appeared, and brought her a message from God. Hagar apparently had some spiritual awakening as a result of this angelic visitation. She was so excited, she gave Him her own personal name, Lahai Roi, meaning The God Who Sees. 

All of us have a heart-felt need to believe there is someone who sees us. Who really notices us. Who understands and who cares. We want to feel appreciated and affirmed. We long to be valued and celebrated. How great to know that God always sees us! 

Whatever word or greeting we choose to use when saying "Hello", how good it will be if we think about the person and convey that powerful message. “Hello. You are important to me . . . because I see you.”

OVER TO YOU: This week, try to make each greeting, no matter how brief, convey a powerful message. Just a warm greeting, a nod or a smile can say to them, "I see you! And I care."

Bye for now! Sawubona! I see you!

SHIRLEY CORDER lives on the coast in South Africa with her husband, Rob. Her book, Strength Renewed: Meditations for your Journey through Breast Cancer contains 90 meditations based on her sojourn in the cancer valley.

Please visit Shirley through ShirleyCorder.com, where she encourages writers, or at  RiseAndSoar.com, where she encourages those in the cancer valley. You can also meet with her on Twitter or FaceBook

Please pop in and say, "Sawubona!"

12 comments:

  1. What a beautiful lesson! It is reminiscent of another lesson I learned.

    When you enter a room, is your attitude "Here I am" or "There you are"?

    One assumes that everyone is waiting for you.
    The other assumes that you are looking for others.

    It all depends on point of view.

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    1. Oh thank you Judith! What a lovely lesson on point of view!

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  2. Lovely. I am so inspired by this.

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  3. Sawubona Shirley! Yes, it's a little awkward at times. You want to be friendly to a person but haven't got time to stay forever. I think it's important to listen long enough for them to feel you are interested,but explain then that you also need to see someone else.
    But isn't it great that the Lord isn't bound by time? He has all the time in the world for us. What grace!

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    1. Sikhona, Rita! Yes, isn't it a great though? The Lord never runs out of time for us. He always sees us - just where we are!

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    2. Aaarrgghh! I meant a great thought!

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  4. Sawubona! I love the various shades of meaning inherent in so many languages. However when Sawubona comes from the Lord's lips He really does see us, not the outward presentation given by us. Isn't it great that we can come into the presence of the Lord and be totally honest with Him. I may not, yet, be able to say "Sawubona" literally to Christ Jesus but what a wonderful hope we have that one day before Him we will say it. "Sawubona Lord"

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    1. Sikhona Ray! And you're right. Won't it be wonderful when we can one day say this direct to the Lord - and hear him respond!

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  5. Sawubona, Shirley! Thanks for your beautiful reminder that God sees us and cares about us at all times and also your encouragement to greet others in a caring way. God bless!

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    1. Sikhona Jo-Anne. Thanks for your greeting! Have a wonderful God-inspired week!

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  6. You are so right. We so often fail to realize that people need the same thing we crave. To be loved and accepted. If we each took the time to look people in the eye and stopped and truly listened, the world would change!

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