My husband and I recently had coffee with some old friends.
They are old in the sense that we have known them for a long time, but they are
also old in age. They admitted they are starting to slow down, just a little.
Then they laughed about how time flies by so quickly. “We seem to mark it by our
involvement at church,” they admitted. “What? It’s time for Bible study
already? What? It’s Sunday again?” They spoke with enthusiasm and energy about
that involvement and about their relationship to their God.
Their comments struck me as something worth noting, since I
had just returned from spending a week visiting a retirement home, among people
who seemed to be marking time by their stomachs. “Isn’t it time for lunch yet?
When will they announce Supper? They should be announcing supper soon.” (They
reminded me a little of Merry and Pipin in the Lord of the Rings – “Surely he
knows about elevensies?!”). Though I recognized that the capacity of the folks
in that retirement home to be productive is now limited by age and infirmities,
it saddened me that there was nothing more significant in their lives than what
and when they would eat that day.
Sadly, though many of us are limited by neither old age nor
infirmity, we sometimes live our lives in a similar way, with little purpose or
direction. We mark time by how quickly Friday comes or when our next
opportunity will be to indulge in some kind of leisure activity. Days fly by
and we neither acknowledge the creator nor delight in what He has provided for
us. Weeks fly by and we neglect the things and the people who nourish us
spiritually.
Paul, the writer of the book of Philippians recognized the
futility of such a life when he said - “their god is their stomach and their
glory is in their shame. Their mind is on earthly things.” That kind of focus
leaves us empty and unfulfilled, both spiritually and otherwise. For, as Paul
went on to say – “… our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior
from there, the Lord Jesus Christ …” (Phil.3:19-20).
Marking our lives by our stomachs, with a steadfast focus on
our own needs and desires, does not satisfy the needs of our hearts and souls.
Those deeper needs of life can only be satisfied by relationships, first with
God and then with those around us. We are designed that way. As citizens of
heaven, we are designed to mark time by God’s clock.
His clock is ticking. We may not have much more time to
recognize where our citizenship really lies. Some of us may have no more than
the time it takes to read this article.
The Psalmist wrote – “Teach us to number our days aright,
that we may gain a heart of wisdom” (Psalm 90:12).
How are you marking time?
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Marcia Lee Laycock writes from central Alberta
Canada where she is a pastor's wife and mother of three adult daughters. She
was the winner of The Best New Canadian Christian Author Award for her novel,
One Smooth Stone and also has two devotional books in print. Her work has been
endorsed by Sigmund Brouwer, Janette Oke, Phil Callaway and Mark Buchanan. Marcia's
second novel, A Tumbled Stone was recently short listed in the contemporary
fiction category of The
Word Awards. Abundant Rain, an ebook devotional for
writers can be downloaded here.
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Thanks, Marcia, for your thoughtful and challenging blog. Just recently I realised how much I was living in the future--getting talks ready ahead of time so I can manage quite a busy speaking schedule--but, in the process, missing out on the present moment and noting what God might want me to be doing right now, including just sitting and being together. I guess the challenge is to live life in God's way at God's pace, don't you think?
ReplyDeleteWonderful perspective on priorities. Thank you for helping me re-order mine.
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